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Chickie’s stats and details

Thank you for your congrats last night everyone! Amelia, who will be known here as Chickie, is doing wonderfully, and so is Mama.

Chickie was born at home as planned, at 7:28pm, after about three weeks of prodromal labor and only three and a half hours of active labor. Three pushes and this big girl wanted out!

Chickie weighed 9lbs 14oz, beating big brother Pal by 5oz, although her chest was a bit smaller. (thank God!) She is 20″ long.

Although I would never call birth easy, her’s was absolutely beautiful. Being a record-breaking warm day for March, we spent a great deal of time outside, and much of my day prior to the birth was spent watching my older children play in their puddle jumpers outdoors. It was all just so right.

We are having trouble uploading pics from the phone, will work on that, and after some journaling I will eventually post her birth story, but I did want to share with all of you who have been praying for us and offered us your blessings, that Chickie is healthy, nursing well, and I am feeling great. God is good!

Mama

See you in April!

I can’t believe I’m already 38 weeks pregnant! But here we are, ready to meet our newest child anytime in the next 4 weeks or so. Our birth supplies are ready and our baby’s belongings are lovingly prepared. This weekend I will be celebrating with some women in my family at a Mother Blessing my mom is preparing for me, and then I’ll be ready to have this baby.

As I’m sure you can understand, I have absolutely no intention of blogging within the first few weeks of giving birth. So I have asked some friends to share on some very cool topics, every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, until I return. Please visit and support my guest writers. I’m very excited about what they have to share and I know it will bless you!

Papa will probably continue to share his thoughts as he is inspired, and we will post an announcement with a picture of Chickie or Chap from Papa’s phone after the birth. When I return I will come bearing our birth story, and will probably have a bunch of other news to share, as often happens when I don’t post for any length of time. We are still hoping to have our new website up and running in April as well!

Thank you all for your support, I look forward to chatting with you again next month!

random December thoughts

Sun setting on the hills, big clouds in a big blue sky, beautiful naked trees. I wish I had my camara on me.

Pancakes taste better when the batter is made by little hands.

When the yard is muddy, and too cold to go barefoot, you must find somewhere else to run.

A quiet evening with hubby by radiant heating ~ delicious.

Screw logic! I think I’m having a baby girl. There, I said it.

Reliving Atlas’ first year in pictures and videos ~ oh those tears!

Yes Buddy, God made men with afros too, even if they do look silly to you!

Stupid chickens. My porch is not your house! Especially for you roosters at 6am.

“This cat sat on a rug. This cat got mud on the rug. Mom is mad at the cat.”

Cuddling with kiddos in fleece pj’s makes the cool season cozy.

Live worms make great pets. Frozen ones make for fascinating scientific observations.

Washing newborn clothes ~ who knew tights were made that small!

Potty training is from the pits of hell. But the reward is Grand.

Hanging six stockings this year…

Forget fans. A generator humming in the background is the new white noise.

Hot chocolate and Bingo are the perfect late-fall match.

Goodbye pacificer, hello teddy.

“Hark the herald angels sing, Glory to the newborn King!”

four months big (rambling prego thoughts)

Today I am 16 weeks pregnant. My little Chap/Chiki is (by averages) nearly 4oz and almost 5″ tall. Complete with all body parts in place, and his/her sole job is to grow bigger and stronger for another 24ish weeks.

Susi came for my second prenatal last week and gave me the A.O.K. for another month. My uterus is growing just as it should, and after reviewing my diet diary she had no recommendations except to keep doing the same.

Susi tried to hear my baby’s heart beat with her fetascope, but not luck yet. She didn’t expect to hear it yet though, as it could be closer to 20 weeks before she can pick it up with the ultrasound doppler. Since everything else is perfect, and I have begun feeling movement, we decided it wasn’t necessary to expose Chap/Chiki to the ultrasound.

A couple days later, I have to admit, I started over thinking the fact that this baby’s movements feel lighter and less consistent than I remember the others at this point, so to reassure myself I used my doppler and found a nice steady heart rate of 150bpm!

I also had my blood drawn for a Complete Blood Count test, to check (among other things) my blood volume, iron level, and white blood cells. I declined the more standard Prenatal Panel testing, partly because of the cost and partly because I already know my blood type and antibody statuses.

Most of my regular clothes have been packed away and I’m sporting maternity wear, woo hoo! People can see that I am pregnant now without my telling them so.

My nausea is basically gone, other than in response to my unusual aversion to brewing coffee, which I normally love the smell of. And while sotries of late miscarriages and very preterm babies seem to be more common among aquaintances lately, I’m feeling more confident about preparing for this unexpected gift, and already feeling very attached.

I’m still nervous about how my left hip is going to hold out this time. I was in constant, intense pain for the second half of Pal’s pregnancy, and even though I know it can be different this time, I’m already feeling aching in my left sitz bone. Please pray for me! This could either be mild discomfort, or a very. very. long. pregnancy.

On a much more pleasant note, I think this baby is a boy. I usually don’t get strong feelings about gender until later in the pregnancy (I’ve been right about all three!), so I might change my mind, but I’m just getting a sense like this will be Chap. We’ll find out in March!

What babies really need (less stuff)

We “experienced” moms can chuckle at first-timers and their baby wish lists, but when we chuckle we also have clear memories of those first days as moms, thinking we needed every gadget and do-dad to keep our babies safe, healthy, and happy.

(Pal, weaning himself at 18 months)

When Buddy was due to be born, I thought I was being conservative with my wish list, but as I gathered my thoughts together about things we might need for baby #4 (keeping in mind the space I have available for more stuff), I could see how you can get by with very little and still be quite comfortable.

I don’t have the list I made for Buddy, but here is what I’ve created for Chap/Chickie.

Things we need for baby:

  • Infant carseat
  • Parent’s Choice diapers (size 1 and up) and wipes
  • Gender neutral clothes 0-3 months
  • 12 white onesies 0-3 months
  • 0-3 month socks, preferably Hanes
  • Newborn booties
  • Lansinoh manual breast pump ($30 at Walmart)
  • Milk storage bags
  • 2 – 8oz bottles
  • Lansinoh lanolin breast cream
  • 2 – 0 to 6 month MAM pacifiers
  • 8 receiving blankets
  • 6 cotton newborn hats
  • Natural baby soap
  • 4-6 Tupperware sippy cups
  • 8 burp clothes
  • 6 baby wash cloths
  • Hooded baby towel

To be honest, even some of these things are exras. I don’t really need a breast pump, milk storage bags, and bottles, especially in the first three months, but it certainly can come in handy. I also figured out that our toddler carseats are reversible for young babies, and by the time this baby is born, Girlie should weigh enough to use a booster seat, clearing up one of the toddler seats to be used for the baby. However, because I wanted to use the infant carseat as a safe place to put the baby inside (similar to the purpose of a bouncy seat), I kept it on the list.

Here is what I put on the list as please don’t buy any:

  • Blankets (we’ve got bags full of them from three grown babies)
  • Newborn diapers (our smallest baby was just over 8lbs, I doubt this baby will wear them for long)
  • Diaper rash cream (I make my own)
  • Toys (we have plenty, and babies really don’t need many. really.)
  • Extra soft socks (they’re cute, but don’t stay on the feet)
  • Bibs (Most of the ones gifted to us before were never used because we had so many)
  • Baby food accessories (baby spoons, toddler plates, etc. we have enough) – We did use a food mill that I found useful, but ended up using a blender to make our own baby food. I now have a manual food processer that will do the job.
  • Baby carriers or strollers (we have a hand-me-down L.L. Bean backpack and my homemade wrap)
  • Baby swing (we have one being lent to us if we want it)
  • Clothes bigger than 3 months (we’ll get hand-me-downs from friends, babies who make messes and outgrow clothes quickly don’t need brand new clothes!)
  • Cribs, basinets, or playpens (we co-sleep for the first four-ish months, one of our bottom bunks is baby-proofed, and we have a yardsale-bought playpen that still works great after three kids!)

Granted, new parents won’t have a crib, backpack, and baby blankets in storage, but if it’s one thing I’ve learned from parenthood is that you don’t need gadgets to be happy! Babies need love, mama’s milk, and to be held. That’s it! … until they are mobile… but that’s another story.

Tell us, what’s your experience?

We have a niece!

This week I had the honor of being my brother and sister-in-law’s birth doula as they welcomed their first baby into the world, and I became an aunt!

Baby A is so gorgeous, and right away she had such a pleasant personality. I am so thankful I was asked to be a part of the birth team, and while it didn’t go quite as hoped, my sister-in-law did amazing work, and we’re all glad she is finally holding A in her arms.

Today we introduced Buddy, Girlie, and Pal to A, and the older two got to hold her. How precious! And to think we’ll be doing this all over again in just a few months…

Anyway, congratulations M, E, and A! We love you!

Here we go again!

I never expected to be saying this. Recent posts have expressed quite the opposite. We are happy being a family of five, ready to move on to new adventures, but one little miscalculation later, love wins and well, we are expecting baby number four!

That’s right, I am pregnant, and come next March we will be expanding our family. I only took the test to reassure myself that I was not pregnant, but when two lines appeared all I could say was, oh my, oh my, oh my. Really? Another little person? But I was done! I am not ready for this!

Sometimes though, it doesn’t matter what you planned; a baby is conceived anyway, and that’s just what happened with us.

After a day of coming to terms with the reality of this new life in my womb, Papa and I decided we are adaptable, and we have chosen to be happy about this baby. Plans change, and that’s okay. We had originally planned on four kids anyway, so we’re just following through!

Really though, it is a blessing to be carrying another baby, and part of my smiles at the thought that I will yet again snuggle with a newborn. I was ready to be done, but my heart has plenty of love for another child.

So, ready or not, here we go again! More first heart beats, first kicks, a big belly, giving birth, and seeing each other for the first time. Moments and milestones we will cherish forever. Welcome little baby! May you grow healthy and happy. We love you.

It must be Spring!

Because nothing says Springtime like a chocolate-covered face!

Happy 1st Birthday Pal!

Yesterday our baby Atlas turned one year old. I almost can’t even call him a baby anymore!

Here he is, all 20.5 pounds of him, eating his breakfast of half a bagel with peanut butter. He does like his food!

Last night we had most of our family come over for a celebration!

I passed around Atlas’ first year scrapbook, of which I’ve finished the first eight months.

It’s not the easiest thing in the world to get all the family together, so birthday parties are a good way to share our growing children with them all!

Atlas was his cheerful self, of course, and enjoyed playing with my step-cousins.

After his cake (which you’ll see at the end), Atlas was mellow through the gift opening. Odd, you’d think he’d perk up more! Oh well, he still had fun and so did we.

He now has his own set of wheels, but he’s going to have ward off the big sibs cause they think his ride is pretty sweet!

And here it is, the cake. I did use a box, but I had fun with the frosting. Atlas likes helicopters so I did my best at making a helicopter pad. Glen had a few cool ideas he wanted to add, but I claimed the cake and made it sweet and simple. Maybe I’ll let him decorate the next birthday cake!

Atlas approved. He thought the cake was quite delish.

And what better way to say goodbye to babyhood then to be welcoming in my very first niece/nephew. Tonight I had the honor and pleasure of recording the heartbeat of my brother and sis-in-law’s unborn baby. New life is so precious!

Atlas, not quite a baby, not quite a toddler

Every month I sort through and back up all our pictures. I’ve had a TON of good ones since Glen bought my new camara, which has made it very difficult to prioritize them, but I’ve really enjoyed all the new perspectives I’ve been able to get of the kids.

I realized about a month ago, however, that many times when I’ve gotten the camara out to play Atlas has been in bed, and I’ve been averaging “only” 30-45 pictures a month of him to choose from. Horrible I know. But I wanted to make sure I got some really good ones of him this month to finish off his first year album right.

So I asked my grandmother to watch Nemo and Daphney so I could devote some time to taking pictures of just Atlas. 140 pictures later, I had some more sorting to do. And oohing and ahing.

I got it down to 14 pictures to put on this post and then asked Glen to pick four pictures to take out. I thought that would make me feel better about choosing ones, but every time he picked one I whined, “that one? I like that one!” Choosing 10 to share was really difficult!

I don’t know too much about taking pictures. I should be taking more time to play with the camara and experiment with settings, reading about which ones to use in what settings. I took it off the portrait setting for many of these pictures because it resulted in too dark of pictures, since our diningroom does not let in much light. I really like how they came out, but some of them were a bit grainy when I adjusted the shutter speed. I guess with more practice I’ll find a setting I like for each room, but I’m not complaining! It was fun to spend time on just my baby. 

My baby. My baby turns one in two weeks. A whole year old. He’s pulling himself up to standing, eating almost everything, cutting his fifth tooth, climbs one stair, and is practicing standing on his own.

It’s been so much fun playing new games with him, and enjoying the extra sleep I get during the middle of the night, but that doesn’t make the loss of babyhood much easier.

Every new stage has something new and exciting, right? I’m so glad I have videos, pictures, and journals of each of the kids as they grew from babies into young children.

Anyway, this wasn’t really supposed to be a sentimental post, I just wanted to share with you some of my favorite pictures that I took of Atlas this morning.

Isn’t he cute?!